I mean, if you can't understand something or didn't hear it clearly the first time (trust me I do that all the time), you can always ask the person to repeat it.
Don't stand there like you didn't hear anything and let the other party wait.
Don't stutter like a broken record trying to get your point through. (and still fail in that attempt)
I'm sorry I get impatient when I'm stressed, but I don't sympathize when I sense that you're not meaning well.
If you don't like something, speak up and suggest a better idea or alternative.
We should always focus on problems at hand, not on the people.
Don't go ambiguous on me by saying "I dunno" when I ask for your opinion, and then secretly dislike me for doing something.
And not once or twice, but quite a few times d.
Contrary to what you may think, i can sense your dissatisfaction when you talk. So why is it so difficult to come up straight and tell me what you think, instead of bottling in every time I ask, then later be grumpy about it and dump your negativity on me?
At least I try. Can't say the same for you.
Gosh I seriously prefer straightforwardness and and honesty over ambiguity in relationships.
(this makes me more empathetic towards those guys who have no idea what some girls are thinking hahahaha. well only in certain cases lah. Some of the guys are just plain insensitive xD)
They’re not important enough to spoil my mood. I usually just stay away. Maintain my distance. But there are some instances where I can't maintain distance and have to deal with some people I don't really like on a regular basis.
So.
Let's focus on positive.
Luckily you're not my groupmate.
Luckily you're not my roommate.
Lalalala.... we should forget what is unimportant.
I should stock up on more cookies. Running out fast. lol.
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