"Do you want to talk? Are you alright?"
"Guessing he told you tht im annyd??Been 4 the last few days n now u ask if i wanna tlk...Not particularly at tis very moment"
"Why not? Btw, you are not the only person who is depressed"
"Oh n u r ?. "
I ended our brief texting session with saying Goodnite .
"Guessing he told you tht im annyd??Been 4 the last few days n now u ask if i wanna tlk...Not particularly at tis very moment"
"Why not? Btw, you are not the only person who is depressed"
"Oh n u r ?. "
I ended our brief texting session with saying Goodnite .
Its rather amazing how rumours spread like wild fire.Fascinating enough,you will realised how a story is twisted to the extent of amazing distortion.Her failure to address the real problem has been the core of the whole drama.I personally hate being entangled with catfights especially the hissy fits one.
Its been severely blown out of proportion when we all came back from our break.I needed a space of my own and she thought i was giving her a cold shoulder.Im not up to that good state of emotional well being; juggling with new semester,with new optional paper that i was still doubting whether to continue with it or not...
I do admit i deliberately ignored her (so do a lot of ppl) and then, i do admit i dissed her,but definitely not behind her back,but right at her face.Why?Because you push my buttons.And breached the line of my privacy.I did it to let her knw i need my own PERSONAL space.
The whole Hamner incident was induced mainly by the other female friends;me and a guy friend,J were just again hanging in between.We understand whats the frustration is all about,all rooted from the same reason,a flaw that one of our friends possesed that seems too much for the rest of us to handle,that is to dictate and boss us around.
It sounds minor,perhaps the whole idea of us having the major cold childish war nw is indeed a puny ludicrous incident.The thing is when you command and demand your friends around too much and always put yourself first above everyone else,our level of tolerance is definitely being tested.
Me and my good bud here J were planning to go flatting new year since last semester,deciding where to flat and who to flat with,which are one of the most common but difficult questions to be solved.Finding flatmates are pivotal in establishing ur near future (ya staying at least your whole freaking year with those flatmates).It randomly occur when one of our friends asked about our plan,and whether or not i'd ask her to flat with us,i dont know.So,we went out on a particular day with a few other friends that are potential me and J's flatmates to look for flats and visit J's friend's flat...To put things in short,it was just a spontaneous thing tht me n J prompted; to find out more abt the details of flatting.
The huge war erupted a few days ago when THAT particular friend,O started to realise she has been ignored and started to make things up like we do things behind her back eg flatting without her being our flatmate.LOok~first of all,you never ask me or J abt being our flatmate...second do think abt the REASONS we are giving u a cold shoulder and shoving u off,for a period of time.Again,she failed to acknowledge her own attitude was the problem and with a crude frontal attack on J,she progressively (and also agressively) attacked J with all these questions like why every1 is fucking backstabbing her , why everyone hates her,why everyone is not telling whats her problem.And then off she goes,forming her own alliance,knowing me and J and other friends are flatting together,spreading rumours about me n J to them,the whole backstabbing bitching thing.
Im...like wth...even in flatting aspect,you wanna compete with us.And the whole thing not telling her abt anythg flatting nex yr was a lie.We did tell her and she told others we deliberately talked abt it just to rub it on her face,just to hurt her.
Its hard to put them down in words,maybe its a lil confusing.But i just wanna say that all these shytes are purely not triggered by me and J,but from other friends who are so sick of tht 'O' person. I truly understand their frustration,but it does me n J no justice,as we both are not sure what did the other friends told her abt us.The friends tht will flat with us nex yr.
Its just stupid.
Its been severely blown out of proportion when we all came back from our break.I needed a space of my own and she thought i was giving her a cold shoulder.Im not up to that good state of emotional well being; juggling with new semester,with new optional paper that i was still doubting whether to continue with it or not...
I do admit i deliberately ignored her (so do a lot of ppl) and then, i do admit i dissed her,but definitely not behind her back,but right at her face.Why?Because you push my buttons.And breached the line of my privacy.I did it to let her knw i need my own PERSONAL space.
The whole Hamner incident was induced mainly by the other female friends;me and a guy friend,J were just again hanging in between.We understand whats the frustration is all about,all rooted from the same reason,a flaw that one of our friends possesed that seems too much for the rest of us to handle,that is to dictate and boss us around.
It sounds minor,perhaps the whole idea of us having the major cold childish war nw is indeed a puny ludicrous incident.The thing is when you command and demand your friends around too much and always put yourself first above everyone else,our level of tolerance is definitely being tested.
Me and my good bud here J were planning to go flatting new year since last semester,deciding where to flat and who to flat with,which are one of the most common but difficult questions to be solved.Finding flatmates are pivotal in establishing ur near future (ya staying at least your whole freaking year with those flatmates).It randomly occur when one of our friends asked about our plan,and whether or not i'd ask her to flat with us,i dont know.So,we went out on a particular day with a few other friends that are potential me and J's flatmates to look for flats and visit J's friend's flat...To put things in short,it was just a spontaneous thing tht me n J prompted; to find out more abt the details of flatting.
The huge war erupted a few days ago when THAT particular friend,O started to realise she has been ignored and started to make things up like we do things behind her back eg flatting without her being our flatmate.LOok~first of all,you never ask me or J abt being our flatmate...second do think abt the REASONS we are giving u a cold shoulder and shoving u off,for a period of time.Again,she failed to acknowledge her own attitude was the problem and with a crude frontal attack on J,she progressively (and also agressively) attacked J with all these questions like why every1 is fucking backstabbing her , why everyone hates her,why everyone is not telling whats her problem.And then off she goes,forming her own alliance,knowing me and J and other friends are flatting together,spreading rumours about me n J to them,the whole backstabbing bitching thing.
Im...like wth...even in flatting aspect,you wanna compete with us.And the whole thing not telling her abt anythg flatting nex yr was a lie.We did tell her and she told others we deliberately talked abt it just to rub it on her face,just to hurt her.
Its hard to put them down in words,maybe its a lil confusing.But i just wanna say that all these shytes are purely not triggered by me and J,but from other friends who are so sick of tht 'O' person. I truly understand their frustration,but it does me n J no justice,as we both are not sure what did the other friends told her abt us.The friends tht will flat with us nex yr.
Its just stupid.
28/07/09
Things that I need to do. The uncrossed ones on the right page is the most recent one for this coming weekend. I've been doing these to-do lists since I got into college. Too many things to be done that I have to get them outta my head, just so I can concentrate on the tasks at hand.
A pile of laundry waiting to be hand-washed.
