Don’t ever have children if you do not have the confidence to provide them with a healthy and loving environment to grow up in. Kids who grew up in a family which lacks sufficient love and care generally turn out in two extremes: Either that they are:
1) Determined to improve their condition with positive attitudes such as strong-willed and persistent in studies and career, thrifty in spending, high EQ with patience, and have identified clearly what kind of future they desired for and work hard towards achieving it, OR
2) Developed personality issues such as lack of sense of security, over protected towards oneself thus will not trust others easily, impatient, unable to “process” negative emotions such as anger efficiently, behave to others in an offensive manner, etc.
Of course they don’t necessarily be either one of type 1 or type 2. There’s a scale and their personalities can be anywhere along the scale, depending on whether the positive side dominates their characteristics or the negative side does.
2) Developed personality issues such as lack of sense of security, over protected towards oneself thus will not trust others easily, impatient, unable to “process” negative emotions such as anger efficiently, behave to others in an offensive manner, etc.
Of course they don’t necessarily be either one of type 1 or type 2. There’s a scale and their personalities can be anywhere along the scale, depending on whether the positive side dominates their characteristics or the negative side does.
However, there’s always a risk the latter may happen. Thus, do yourself and the rest of the world a favour: Don’t raise a kid if you and your other half are not ready to have one. Else, you’re just raising another defective individual to add to the already degenerating society.
*above is just my humble opinion. No offence intended.*
